Continuing our series on 10 Italian lifestyle habits that add to the quality of daily living, we are looking today at two more suggestions from Patrick Browne in The Local, our Italian English-language newspaper. They are rather disparate topics, the first of which is difficult, if not impossible, to achieve in .)these restricted times: Habit #7: Be more tactile. The second is delightful (See below.)
Patrick writes: “Italians are very touch-feely and at first it can be a bit strange, but it’s a really positive aspect of how Italians socialize. If it’s your birthday expect a hug and a kiss from everyone around and don’t offend by getting embarrassed about it.
“When you’re with Italian friends expect them to put their hands on your shoulder, ruffle your hair and stroke you – just don’t forget to reciprocate!â€
Quite right too, but in these days of masks and social distancing, a good Italian bracio e abbraccio (a kiss and a hug) is just a fond memory. We will know that we are back to normal we start hugging each other again.
As Patrick says: “Science suggests that being a bit more touchy-feely could make you happier, as physical contact with other humans produces oxytocin, a feel-good hormone that is central to intimacy and bonding.â€
Habit #8 is to Develop a sense of local pride. The Italians call it campanilismo, a sense of identity, a loyalty to where you grew up, within the sight and sound of your own campanile (belltower).
Patrick writes: “Back in the UK, at least, local pride is almost looked down upon – and many people from small towns are embarrassed about where they have their roots. Very often people just lie and tell you that they are from their nearest large city. But many Italians from small towns will tell you exactly why their hometown is the most beautiful place in the world and why you should visit.
“They will passionately talk about the great local restaurant or spot where everybody goes. Why not take their advice?â€
That is certainly true about Fivizzano, the beautiful, walled mediaeval town near the Watermill, and about Florence, where we live in the winter. The sense of local pride is palpable and is just one more thing that adds to the enjoyment of living in Italy.